Needless wants… & I

Emotional turmoil is not always bad…most of the times (read always) it tends to make you an inch wiser than what you were before… 

We commit mistakes… learn from them… move on in life…and it is in this process that we truly learn two good things about our own self…and that is what we want? And what we need? They may sound two similar things or same things but give it one more read and you will know that they talk about two totally different things in one’s life…!!! Most of the mistakes that we commit are in the phase when we only think about what we want?? And most of the learning that we make is in the phase when we think about what we need? Indeed your needs and wants are two different entities and it is only when your need and want coincides, true bliss is attained!!! 

Human heart is only selfish, if one will be honest enough to accept it….!! It never clings to someone or something for life….it gets attached…cares…likes…expects…. loves…assumes….waits… gets depressed… still waits… gets broken… still hopes…gets ignored… still consoles…gets pathetic…and then finally one fine day it just withdraws…!!!! Most people who may say that they don’t expect anything from the people they love and that their love is selfless … are in most probable lying to the world and to their own self too…!!! To expect … to dream… to hope …to long is only natural and it is one of the most important sign that can tell you that you have a heart that feels…that understands… that longs….that wants…

  We may want so many things in life… we may want so many things to happen to us in this very life…but that may or may not be granted always…but whatever we need in our life is something that we always get… the fight in life is to identify which one is want and which one is need…!!! 

“Jise diye Kadam khuda ne…uska aasaman se kya wasta?

Jise diye pankh jodke…uska jameen se kya naata

…tabhi…shayad…

Sabhi ko mukkammal jahan nahi milta … kisiko jameen nahi milti toh kisko aasaman nahi milta…”

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One thought on “Needless wants… & I

  1. Now I am feeling jealous about you stealing thoughts and feelings from my sub-conscious mind and expressing them in the most beautiful way. ..kidding;)

    Nice blog, Aditi….please never slow down your writing…Count on me to crave for your blogs ever…

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